There exists in the dating world a certain bug. The male of the species asks for phone numbers, but does not call. The female says she wants to date you, but does not call you back. A slightly more advanced version of the male calls but never asks for a date. The advanced female version will manage to email, but never quite call.
To quote a book, "They are just not that into you." Or if they are, they clearly don't have the time to invest in a relationship.
Don't waste your time pining over these people. Don't reserve days in your calendar after you leave a message for them.
If some day they wake up and call you back, fine. But do not wait by the phone or pursue them with addtional calls.
They are in general cowards. Too afraid to reject people, and they foolishly think their 'non-rejection' is kinder. No. It hurts worse in the end.
If people do not respond to your message after one week, you can give them one more try, but don't expect a response. It takes multiple generations for a bug to evolve.
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